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CHAT help!

edited June 2014
Hey everyone - I need your help! What are the 3-5 most popular "chatting" platforms for kids (ages 12-17) these days?

Facebook? Gchat? Snapchat? (What is snapchat? Is that even a thing? I think I've heard of it)

This information is needed for IMPORTANT RESEARCH being conducted at Kaiser Permanente.

Thanks.

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  • J is 9... but seems like part of the appeal of a gaming environment like Minecraft (digging holes and building forts in virtual space) is chatting with your buds while you move digital bricks around.... Seems like this is where she is getting her chat time in...

    ( I am operating under the belief that I am supervising this activity and that she is chatting with friends from IRL not predators...btw)
  • Snapchat is really cool IMO. It definitely skews younger, but I use it to stay in touch with a few people and it's one of my favorite "social" services of the past few years.

    In its most basic form, you take a picture or video and send it to a selected group of people (or one person) and they can only view it one time. The beauty of this is that it feels more intimate and private than posting something on Instagram or Facebook. You feel more free to be goofy or just show random things that you might not want to put somewhere more permanent.

    They've recently added an actual text chat feature, but that seems kind of silly to me. Facebook came out with an app called "Slingshot" that's similar, but inferior, IMO, because it requires you to send a pic to see the pic that was sent to you... it's annoying (plus, no one is on it).

    "Kids" are also into writing things in notepad on their phone, screenshotting that and posting it to Instagram, public or private. Also deep into communicating through Tumblr Asks and Ask.fm

    Probably also other secret channels that I'm unaware of.
  • edited June 2014
    I've seen KIK referenced from time to time. Seems like a sexting service? I dunno. http://kik.com
  • Oh yeah, I always see kik mentioned in creepy contexts.
  • People also use WhatsApp to replace SMS texting.
  • bananachat
  • My 13 year old cousin uses snapchat. Not sure what else he's got going on. I know he texts constantly also. None of them email at all--e.g. he doesn't even have an email address

    that's all I know
  • I just found out my 11 year old nephew never checks his email, it blew my mind!

    I think he just chats with friends in Minecraft.
  • In 20 years will all business just get done via Snapchat and Minecraft?

    We do a lot of work in Slack (https://slack.com) which is just glorified group chat, so maybe it's not that far off.
  • It's really amazing. My students are SO bad at email. They hate checking it. The good students check it a couple times a week; the bad students NEVER check it. You have to put in your syllabus that checking email is a requirement of the class.

    It's crazy. When I first heard of the internet, email was by far the coolest use of it I could imagine. So quickly it became lame. Things are going so quickly now. It took hundreds of years for mail delivery to develop, flourish, and come to seem lame/antiquated, now within half a generation email is dead?!

  • also if it makes you feel better, college students are WAY worse at using computers / the internet than we are. They really only know social media--they don't know how to download a pdf or format anything etc. They REALLY don't know how to use google. It's incredible. I think the assumption is that young people are going to be so much better than you are at the internet but it's not true, at least not in some pretty major areas. They associate it pretty solely with chatting/games/okcupid or whatever. When you show them how google works their minds are usually BLOWN
  • edited July 2014
    Most "Internet Artist Millenials" don't know how to edit the most basic HTML, let's be honest.

    I fucking LOVE email, it is the thing that structures my life. It is my to-do list, my scheduler, my way to communicate with friends and family, my way to make money, etc. I have a very tight inbox/folder/organization game.
  • Right?! How would I know what to do without email?
  • I LOVE EMAIL
    I use it in every area of my life
    I keep in such intimate touch with so many far-flung friends with it

    Being in our generation is so weird. We're the only in-between generation, in between pre/post internet. It's going to be interesting to see how we continue to have a different kind of relationship with the internet than younger AND older people as things continue
  • Very interesting to hear how much the kids avoid email, because by the numbers, it's still the biggest way people are communicating online. Sounds like a-change-is-a-comin.
  • Also I'm super grateful that I'm old enough to have memories of what it was like before the Internet came along. I think that's why I love that movie Slacker so much, because it really nails the time right before the Internet hit. People just walking around, sending each other postcards... are there even any computers shown in the cafe scenes?
  • Email is the best. So good to get things in writing, from a work perspective. I like chat for social and group work-oriented stuff and use Adium pretty religiously since it aggregates many popular chat clients into one interface.

    Hate the phone, especially the unavoidable conference call. Such a dumb waste of time.
  • YT just blew my mind with that "in-between generation" analysis. So is every generation an in-between of some sort and that's the key to understanding what sets them apart?
  • edited July 2014
    I don't think so
    I think the internet happened so quickly that there's been an usually enormous gap between the experience of just one generation from the next that is sort of incomparable. Even the personal automobile took more than one generation to become widespread. Even the telephone took more than one generation to become a thing EVERY PERSON USED EVERY DAY

    I think it's unusual. Maybe something somewhat comparable might be the coming of the railroads--people write about it at the time as a traumatic event that changed everything, and maybe there I could see a generation that had horses and then suddenly in their early 20s saw the trains go zooming all over the place. EVEN THEN, however, it's not like they were taking trains all day every day, the way we are on the internet. It's not like all socializing and dating and communication and purchasing started taking place on trains, within the space of 15 years.

    I mean, every generation has its own shit that the previous/future one doesn't fully get. Vietnam, segregation, the telegraph, various wars...but the internet is just so all-pervasive at almost every level of almost every demographic's daily life and it became that way SO QUICKLY. I really can not think of an equivalent, historically, to the conceptual trajectory of me as a 17 year old literally thinking the person who told me about email was fucking with me, to me 20 years later typing this message on my tiny computer with which I can buy books and shoes and talk to anyone I want and download music and read 18th century document scans that are housed across the sea from where I'm at now.

    I have not researched it but I think this is unusual and that our generation is going to prove to be unusually weird in the long run when it comes to internet/data/etc
  • edited July 2014
    and anyway I just think it's really interesting that we're the only ones who have fully inhabited both worlds. We fully inhabited a world before the internet was even a thing anyone had dreamed of outside of sci-fi. We wrote letters and ran up epic long distance bills and certain things were simply proscribed because the communication possibility simply wasn't there. And now we fully inhabit the internet age, but we're still young enough to kind of get it and immerse ourselves in it--unlike the generation older than us, which was too old when it started proliferating and catching on, and who as a result have always and will always be somewhat alienated from it all.

    They're doing all these studies that show that actually our generation is the only one that is unhealthily distracted by/obsessed with our devices and facebook and whatever. Older people don't use them enough to have an unhealthy relationship, and younger people have more fully and naturally integrated them into their lives. WE'RE the ones writing books about how to turn off your computer so you can raise your children / how to simplify your life; WE'RE the ones stressing out to each other about how much time we spend on Facebook; WE'RE the ones who other people find rude for constantly looking at our phones while socializing. They've apparently found that young people don't text and drive, actually it's US doing that!

    crazy shit
  • I've been BBSing and chatting with strangers via modems since 1991. #oldschool
  • WE'RE THE GREATEST GENERATION!
  • Also, I don't believe that thing you said, YT, because I have been around younger folk (like 12 years younger) who won't stop staring at their phones.
  • I made most of it up probably
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