http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/ Good Heart/Perfect Heart Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-61 Wed, 10 Aug 2005 09:59:52 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-61 I seem to attract cyber creeps, Emily. This dude is not the first. Lucky me, right?

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-60 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 19:59:50 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-60 Wow, Willow, you know you’ve “made it” in the blogging world when some jerk who you don’t even know leaves lecturing comments about your lovelife on your personal blog! Um, congratulations? :p

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-59 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 19:12:06 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-59 I’m glad you cleared that up. I figured that you & Mike must have some understanding about it, but I did think that it was a pretty borderline joke for him to be doing, and so soon!
I shouldn’t have doubted you, Mike.

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-58 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 16:32:15 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-58 FYI, readers, Mike Merril did not make the above comment. I emailed him and asked, this was his response:
“no!
I almost responded… because I so didn’t agree with what he said!
Josh asked me why I was being so harsh, and I said, “What!?” and he
said on your blog…
I did look his info up… his email addy says he is from Jet Blue,
and his IP is from New York.
I don’t think you made AJ look like a pansy, that is a dumb thing to
say. You make him look like a really awesome guy, a guy so rad that
you doubted your own instincts about jumping into another
relationship. (i don’t know who AJ is) And I think blogging about it
is good.”
I have a personal blog. I write about my personal life. Even when it gets sticky, I try to present things honestly and fairly. AJ is wonderful. He is not a pansy, just a really good guy. I was not a good girlfriend to him, and I needed to confess it on Perfect Heart. “AJ” is a pseudonym. The greater Portland community is most likely not reading my dinky blog, and those that are do not know his actual identity, unless they are my friends in real life too.
I find the phrase “hold down a girl” offensive.

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-57 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 12:01:14 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-57 Don’t beat yourself up about it!

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-56 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 09:47:03 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-56 remember, urban honking has a large readership. whatever you said to AJ, it probably doesn’t help him to know that you’re blogging to the greater portland community about his hurt feelings and warm trustingness. you’re making him sound like a pansy who couldn’t hold down a girl.

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-55 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 08:37:34 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-55 You are not a jerk. I am sure what you did what you had to do, and that you were probably very decent about it.

]]> http://urbanhonking.com/perfect/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-54 Tue, 09 Aug 2005 08:31:56 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/perfectheart/2005/08/08/im_a_jerk/#comment-54 oh, I’m sorry your night was so awful. Love to you.

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