THE HEAVENS HAVE PARTEDDDDDD

AHHHHH! thank you to tara henley at XXL mag for taking the time to iterate the women-as-music (hip-hop)-nerd lifestyle dilemma with: " the top 5 reasons that female hip-hop heads are a rare breed. (Alternately, this list can be read as tips on how to step your game up. Cause, really, it must be hard to ever hook up with hip-hop being the perpetual sausage fest that it is. Yes hetero. Or not, whatever.)"

also: Jennifer Pozner on the Duke rape case, the Wall Street Journal's revolting women just need more common sense" op-ed, and the culture of "blaming it on the woman."