Comments on: Older Boyfriends Who Insist You Like Orange Sherbet When You Really Don’t http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/ Tue, 21 Jul 2015 18:52:04 +0000 hourly 1 By: Megan http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-83 Sat, 21 Jul 2012 16:33:58 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-83 Ew, I do not like that smiley face, for the record.

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By: Megan http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-82 Sat, 21 Jul 2012 16:32:52 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-82 YT, you are on your way to being the next Dan Savage, for reals. This is an excellent advice entry, and I’m a professional so my opinion should mean a lot. 🙂

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By: Leander http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-80 Thu, 19 Jul 2012 23:46:54 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-80 Amen!

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By: Willow http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-79 Thu, 19 Jul 2012 21:07:24 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-79 Right on, YT. Pizza analogy is one for the ages!

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By: Age Aint Nothing But a Number (and Sometimes Y) http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-78 Thu, 19 Jul 2012 17:27:13 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-78 First off, for your awesome, truth-telling treatment of my relationship question: thank you. Not only for the generosity with which you labored over the particulars of my problem, but also for the sensitively brutal yet kindly direct handling of said problem. You’re absolutely right, it’s not an age issue! I think I was confusing matters by subbing in a surface-issue-I-can’t-change for a deeply-interior-issue-I-can’t-change. Thank you for making so many allowances, too, for the real world complications attendant to this relationship, and amid those allowances, I came to agree that change IS possible at any age, and while this will be very difficult for my old dog, I am happy to report that Old Dog is willing to try, and that I know my own bottom line well enough to know when it has been crossed. I loved the pizza-with-a-pile-of-shit analogy. Will use it in my own advisings! I am always telling friends going through difficult times with their loves that you can’t always measure the stuff by the good, because the good is always good, categorically! Thank you again, Yours Truly, for another successful advice!

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By: Elizabeth http://urbanhonking.com/advice/2012/07/17/older-boyfriends-who-insist-you-like-orange-sherbet-when-you-really-dont/#comment-77 Thu, 19 Jul 2012 17:24:26 +0000 http://urbanhonking.com/advice/?p=119#comment-77 Right on the nose.

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